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Comparing yourself to other people is one of the meanest things you could do to yourself. It is suicidal as it is a self destructive habit. Here's is a lesson from the crow and the peacock.

















If you are guilty of making unhealthy comparison with others and being a voluntary victim of sadness, and you sincerely want to change that habit, visit this link to have access to the quick guide to stop comparing yourself with others.

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